Meghan Markle’s in for a royal shock
Meghan Markle’s entry into the House of Windsor is being hailed as a “breath of fresh air” for the royal family.
Prince Harry’s glamorous fiancee officially joins “The Firm” next May as the most modern princess ever after what is anticipated to be the most watched wedding of British royal history.
The question is how will the gender equality campaigner, humanitarian and actor, who grew up in downtown LA, cope in the often stultifying atmosphere of palace life?Ellen Page marries girlfriend Emma Portner
Prince Harry has forged his identity as a passionate supporter of former British armed forces personnel, disadvantaged children and child HIV victims in Africa.
And Meghan Markle’s work with refugees in Rwanda may have been as much as an attraction for the prince as her looks and charm.
Together, the future Duke and Duchess of Sussex may help reshape the new monarchy under King Charles — who will ascend to the throne after the death of the now 91-year-old Queen.Lucy Hale shares shocking post about sexual assault
But before that happens, a very independent young woman will be adjusting to life in a centuries old institution hidebound by formality and unbending tradition.
What lies ahead for Markle includes never being able to go out for a quiet stroll again, ever.
Free movement outside the palace walls is over and learning the strict rules of royal etiquette and protocol is in.The untold truth of Logan Paul
Her Instagram and other social media accounts have already been shut down, but there will be no more posting on anything other than an official page, after vetting of course.
When in residence at the palace, there will be constant clothes changes (up to five a day), dressing for meals and the omnipresence of a full household of staff.
And then there is the relentless media scrutiny.Rebel Wilson tearfully opens up about defamation case win
Whether or not Markle negotiates her new life with the relative ease of her immediate predecessor, Prince William’s wife Kate Middleton, a camera will never be far away.
How will the self-described “freewheeling Californian hippy” and wellness blogger who embraces alternative culture adapt?
Her history makes her perhaps the most challenging person to enter Kensington Palace as a working royal.Celeb couples who are out of touch with reality
Markle is the daughter of Doria Ragland, an African American psychotherapist and yoga teacher, and Thomas Markle, a caucasian cinematographer.
She told Elle magazine that she tackled life as a mixed race child in a white Los Angeles neighbourhood sometimes nervously.
But ultimately she had to face up to it with courage in the face of not-so-casual prejudice, like the time her mother was called the “N” word.Matt Lauer's wife Annette Roque reportedly leaves country
“I have come to embrace [this and] say who I am, to share where I’m from, to voice my pride in being a strong, confident, mixed-race woman,” the girl once known as “Meggie” said.
“Perhaps the closest thing to connecting me to my ever-complex family tree, my longing to know where I come from, and the commonality that links me to my bloodline, is the choice that my great-great-great grandfather made to start anew.
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Markle is referring to her ancestor who celebrated freedom from a cotton plantation in Georgia with a new name after Abraham Lincoln abolished slavery in 1865.
As her step-grandmother Ava Burrows put it, “Meggie marrying a prince? I guess it’s like your Downtown Abbey — and we’re the folks downstairs.”
But more than Britain’s aristocrats, Harry’s own ancestors — Queen Anne, and George I and George II — were the major shareholders or governors in the British South Sea Company.Kiwis face legal action over Lorde boycott
From the early 1700s, the company’s primary purpose was to deliver slaves to Jamaica and America.
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As one story about her rise through the acting ranks to become a star of the TV series Suits, said about Markle, “she would fight, tooth and nail for the things she wanted in life.Star asked to ‘sleep with Charles’
“And Meghan always got what she wanted.”
One of her first challenges, apart from coping with the intense eye of the media, could be boredom.
Prince Harry has joked that his brother had become “boring” since he married, with cancelled forays to their favourite London nightclub, Boujis, or anywhere other than a scheduled event.Tomi Lahren in hot water over Halloween costume
Prince William and Kate’s friends insist they still “have fun”, but that kind of fun will be further curtailed for Harry and Meghan by the arrival of children.
For the first two years after the wedding, however, the Queen is said to likely promise them a period of grace.Meghan Markle’s $266 million royal impact
She granted this to William and Kate so that they could enjoy the early years of their newly married life, just as she and Prince Philip did when he was a naval officer in Malta.
They newlyweds may be able to escape from full public life and live “as commoners”, apart from surveillance by the Royalty and Specialist Protection (RASP) of the London police.
But Harry’s retirement from his British Army career won’t quite allow him the freedom William enjoyed living on a Welsh island with his new wife as he worked as a search-and-rescue pilot.Real Housewives star Jill Zarin mourns loss of husband Bobby
Harry will have to find an alternative, discreet placement away from their new home in Nottingham Cottage, in the grounds of Kensington Palace.
When Harry and Meghan travel to stay with his granny, the Queen, at the royal residences of Sandringham, in Norfolk, and Balmoral, in Scotland, life will be more formal.
Footmen, courtiers and ladies in waiting will be among the household staff overseeing a stressful daily itinerary that includes shooting, tea, and a formal dinner.Fuller House star Jodie Sweetin ordered to pay child support
If Harry is not present, Meghan will be expected to curtsy to all senior members of the family, including princesses Beatrice and Eugenie.
Under the revised Order of Precedence, Meghan’s new bedside reading, she must always curtsy to the Queen and the Duke of Edinburgh, and Camilla and the Prince of Wales.
In private, Camilla apparently relaxes the curtsy rules if she likes you, as she has done with Kate.Mark Wahlberg and agency donate $2 million to Time's Up following pay discrepancy criticism
Meghan can expect that even before she becomes royal by marriage, she will be deluged with free merchandise.
But she can accept none of the bags of designer clothes and handbags that will arrive daily at Kensington Palace.
Her private secretary — one of her new inner circle of staff — will return the free stuff swiftly, but with a polite note.Naya Rivera claimed husband Ryan Dorsey was a 'pushover' before arrest
Megan is said to be planning a baptism in the Church of England, and to take UK citizenship.
She will be expected, like Kate, to wear the clothes of British designers, but may be allowed to include some Americans.
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Meghan’s family should, like the Middletons, be invited to royal occasions, although this could prove awkward, given that they are long divorced.
Since Meghan and Harry’s romance became public, Thomas Markle has reportedly been holed up in a seaside town in North-West Mexico.
Apart from their daughter’s wedding next year, Doria Ragland and her former husband could expect to attend some other royal engagements.Amber Heard, Elon Musk reportedly back together
Much has changed from the days when the parents-in-law of the Queen’s children were virtually shunned by the Windsors.
William is fond of his in-laws, and the Middletons were invited to ride alongside the royal barge at the Diamond Jubilee Pageant and, twice, to be the Queen’s guests at Royal Ascot.
The arrival of Prince William’s two children has pushed Harry, once third in line to the throne of England, out to fifth, pending sixth on the arrival of Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s third child.Meghan moving dogs to London
That does take some royal pressure off Meghan and Harry, but her exotic looks and background will ensure her the most prized status for magazine covers.
Her royal grandmother-in-law may still be around for the birth of her first child, which may be a prompt event given that Meghan will turn 37 three months after she weds Harry.
She also joins the monarchy at an interesting time.Kate’s uncle in court for punching wife
As and end to the Queen’s time on the throne moves inexorably closer, Prince Charles’ desire to demonstrate he is a “king in waiting” has allegedly caused tension between his and his mother’s royal households.
Sir Christopher Geidt, the Queen’s most senior courtier, quit in July, reportedly forced out in a power struggle between Charles and Buckingham Palace.
Prince Charles turns 70 next November, a key royal event that will be somewhat put in the shade by Prince Harry’s wedding.Aziz Ansari responds to sexual assault allegations
Respect and love for the Queen remains a potent force in British life; Charles will inherit some of the goodwill but may have to earn the love.
It is William and Harry who have succeeded the public love for their mother, Princess Diana, and are seen as continuing royal tradition, but with a contemporary twist.
Meghan, a United Nations women’s advocate for political participation and leadership who supported the “He For She” campaign for gender equality may embody that.Tom Petty's cause of death determined
Her UN role brings a touch of Princess Diana’s landmines campaign, and rolls it up with racial parity, topped off by the kind of glamour her late mother-in-law gifted to the Windsors.
And overlaid with her modern sensibility, she revealed in a blog post, “I’ve never wanted to be a lady who lunches — I’ve always wanted to be a woman who works.”Gervais: ‘I’m drunk every day’
If she can withstand the spotlight, she wins.